Article 76: Comprehensive Irritability Test and Self-Assessment of Male Charm

13. Test your fiery temper.

Many of life's joys are often ruined by our uncontrollable anger and outbursts of temper. The degree to which a person is prone to anger and annoyance is known as their "anger threshold" by psychologists. People who are not easily angered have a low anger threshold, while those who are not easily angered have a high one. However, an excessively high anger threshold is extremely harmful to a person.

Here is a test to measure your irritability level. Imagine you unfortunately encounter these potentially anger-inducing situations. Please rate each question according to how angry you are: 0 points if you are not annoyed at all; 1 point if you are slightly annoyed; 2 points if you are slightly annoyed; 3 points if you are quite annoyed; and 4 points if you are extremely angry. Please give yourself the most accurate assessment:

①You take out the tools you just bought, assemble them, and then find that they are broken.

② Someone is trying to extort you and make you look bad.

③You have been caught red-handed, while your accomplices have escaped unscathed.

④ Your car was pushed into the mud or snow.

⑤ You ask someone for advice, but they give you an irrelevant answer.

⑥ Someone pretends to know nothing about you when you ask them questions.

⑦ In a coffee shop, you are holding a coffee when someone bumps into you, spilling coffee all over you.

⑧ Someone knocked the clothes you hung up to the ground, but you didn't pick them up.

9. You were scolded by a salesperson as soon as you entered the store.

⑩ You made plans to go on a picnic with a friend and made careful preparations, but he changed his mind at the last minute, leaving you extremely frustrated.

⑪ You were mocked or fooled.

⑫ You stopped your car at a traffic light, and the drivers behind you kept honking their horns at you.

⑬ While parking, you made a mistake, and as you drove away, someone yelled at you, "Did you learn to drive backwards?"

⑭ Others made a mistake, but you were blamed for it.

⑮ You want to concentrate, but the person at the next table keeps tapping their foot on the floor.

⑯ You lend someone an important item, but they don't return it after using it.

17. You come home after a busy day, only to be ridiculed by your family for forgetting some things you promised to do.

18. When you discuss important matters with your family, they don't give you a chance to express your own opinions.

19. You are chatting with someone who knows very little about the subject but is always self-righteous.

⑳ When you are having a discussion with someone, a third party interrupts, steals the spotlight, and makes things very awkward for both of you.

29 You've encountered an awkward situation where "a scholar can't reason with a soldier."

29. While you are on your way, you are fooled by several people.

23. An impatient person often encounters a slow and indecisive person.

23. You use your last coin to make a phone call, but the line drops as soon as it connects. You're out of money and can't make the call.

20 You're rushing to work, but you get stuck in traffic.

After completing the questionnaire, your total score will be calculated. The lowest possible score is 0, which means you gave 0 points for every question, indicating that you are either lying or a monster! The highest possible score is 100, which means you got 4 points for every question, indicating that you were constantly angry.

0~45: This irritability value is quite low. Only a few people get this score. They are peaceful and not easily angered. You are one of them.

46~55: You are more composed than most people.

56~75: You react to the annoying things in life in a normal way.

76~85: You often get angry about the annoying things in life, and you get angry more easily than the average person.

86-100: You have a truly fiery temper. Even after unpleasant events have passed, your unhappiness lingers for a long time. You may have a reputation for being short-tempered. You may frequently suffer from headaches and high blood pressure. Your anger often erupts uncontrollably, creating many unnecessary troubles for yourself. Very few people are as prone to anger as you. It is recommended that you start now to find ways to cool down and extinguish your temper, otherwise one day you will be burned by your own fiery temper!

14. Are you a real man?

To be a real man, you must first possess captivating charm. Fellow men, do you know how attractive you are to women? Please take a few minutes to complete the following quiz; it will tell you what a real man is.

(1) Your attitude towards life is:

a. extraordinary and unconventional;

b. Observe calmly;

c. Full of enthusiasm.

(2) How do you feel about your self-image?

a. Has not thought about it seriously;

b. A feeling that is slightly imperfect;

c. A feeling of near perfection.

(3) In your opinion, male charm is mainly reflected in:

a. Handsome in appearance;

b. Strength and fitness;

c. Personality and temperament.

(4) Your attire when interacting with women is as follows:

a. Doesn't matter;

b. Make slight modifications;

c. Neat and aesthetically pleasing.

(5) When a woman you are interested in looks at you, your reaction is:

a. Avoid the other person's line of sight;

b. Make brief eye contact with the other person;

c. Make eye contact with the other person.

(6) Your motivation for interacting with women stems from:

a. Seeking a lover;

b. Seeking pleasure in life;

c. Seeking friendship.

(7) The main topics you discuss with women are:

a. Social phenomena;

b. Life pursuits;

c. Emotional psychology.

(8) What do you hope women will feel about you?

a. Dependable and compliant;

b. Worthy of admiration and respect;

c. Easygoing, friendly, and natural.

(9) Are you willing to tell your girlfriend about your inner world?

a. Unwilling to discuss inner feelings with women;

b. You can tell your girlfriend, but keep it a little secret;

c. Express your inner feelings without reservation.

(10) Your personality traits tend to be:

a. Introverted;

b. Moderate;

c. Extroverted.

score:

You may only choose one answer for each question. Choosing answer a earns 0 points, answering answer b earns 2 points, and choosing answer c earns 4 points. Calculate your total score.

suggestion:

A score of 30 or above: Congratulations on your excellent score! This shows you understand the "key to masculine charm." You are good at making friends with women and getting along well with them. As long as you treat them sincerely, your friendships will last.

A score of 26 or higher: Achieving this score indicates you possess considerable charm and have a correct understanding of it. By diligently cultivating your personality and temperament in future life and social interactions, paying attention to improving your overall refinement and understanding of women's emotional needs, you can maintain lasting and pure friendships with them.

If you score below 20: It's time for you to seriously reflect on your behavior and beliefs. Don't close yourself off because of your personality traits and individual characteristics. You still have a way to go to become a truly charismatic man. Hopefully, you can improve yourself based on your best answers to the questions above. When you achieve success, you will discover a brand new world full of warmth and love before you.

15. Who is the most annoying?

Jingjing wakes up on Island A and finds that her fiancé is not by her side.

"I'm here...!" Ah Lang's voice called from afar. Ah Lang stood on the opposite island, separated by the sea. It was absolutely impossible to cross without a rowboat.

Songsong found a rowboat. He understood Jingjing's feelings at that moment, so he pressured her, saying, "Let me kiss you, and I'll give you the rowboat." Jingjing, who wanted to get back to Alang as soon as possible, had never kissed Alang before, so she didn't want to agree to Songsong's request.

Jingjing discussed it with her friend Yunjie, but Yunjie coldly replied, "Don't consult me. You should consider this yourself and make a decision quickly!"

Jingjing was determined to be with Alang, so she obeyed Songsong's every command and agreed to Songsong's request, thus obtaining the rowing boat.

At first, Ah Lang was delighted that Jingjing had come to him. But upon hearing that Jingjing had obtained the method for rowing, his expression immediately turned cold, and he decisively rejected her, saying, "I have decided to annul our engagement."

Seeing this, Zhijie felt completely sorry for Jingjing and whispered to her tenderly, "I'll protect you! Let's get through this disaster together!"

After reading this story, please write down the names of the people you dislike in order, numbering the person you dislike the most as number 1, and so on.

question:

What number would you list Jingjing as?

Your answer to this question reflects certain aspects of your character, especially your attitude when arguing with others.

Analysis:

If you are number 1: You are a serious and earnest person. If you are blamed by someone or something unpleasant happens, you always think it's all your fault and immediately apologize.

Assigned as Number 2: You sometimes complain, but rarely get angry. You are self-controlled and patiently endure things you want to do. Not explicitly expressing dislike for someone, but occasionally blaming them, is one of the secrets to making them like you.

People designated as number 3 tend to get angry and blame their partners, and argue when they disagree. Both parties find it difficult to calm down after an argument, which requires attention.

People designated as number 4: You believe that after a dispute, sometimes you should give in to the other person, and sometimes you shouldn't hold a grudge. However, you sometimes lose your temper and argue fiercely with the other person. But in those situations, it's often the other person who gives in to you.

People designated as number 5 are willful, indulgent, and self-willed. They are restless and often get angry, leaving others bewildered and unsure of what to do. Even when they are right, they should sometimes consider the feelings of others. Such people are currently very popular with suitors, but they will gradually become disliked.