Article 77: Popularity Test and Interpersonal Skills Assessment

16. Are you popular?

1. If someone says you are a gentle person, you will---

a. Narrow-mindedly thinking: "I'm such a coward." (3 points)

b. He secretly resolved: "From now on, I will be more gentle." (5 points)

c. Indifferently believing: "I don't care what others say." (1 point)

2. On a bus, if the child next to you is crying and making a fuss, what would you do?

a. Disgusted, thinking: "This is so annoying, I wish the parents knew how to stop it." (1 point)

b. "Kids are hopeless; they don't understand anything." (3 points)

c. "Educating children is really not easy." (5 points)

3. After arguing with a friend and going home, when you are alone, you will---

a. He was pleased to think, "People's ideas are truly diverse, and I'm glad to have the opportunity to talk about them." (5 points)

b. Regrettingly thinking, "If I had said that back then, I could have refuted the other party." (1 point)

c. Regrettingly believing, "I didn't fully explain my thoughts at the time." (3 points)

4. When you suddenly meet someone who is very well-dressed, you will---

a. said, "Your clothes are already quite nice; there's no need to go overboard with them." (1 point)

b. Saying enviously, "I want to dress that well too." (3 points)

c. "If clothing reflects a person's inner world, then that person must have a rich inner world!" (5 points)

5. If it wasn't your fault, but you still caused trouble for the other person, you would---

a. Apologetically say, "I'm sorry, there's nothing I can do about it." (3 points)

b. Sincerely apologize: "Anyway, I've caused you trouble." (5 points)

c. Thinking: "It's not my fault, so I don't need to apologize." (1 point)

6. If someone says you are a unique person, you would---

a. "What makes me unique?" While pondering this question, I felt a surge of excitement. (5 points)

b. Angrily thinking, "They must be mocking me." (1 point)

c. "In any case, being unique is a good thing." (3 points)

7. "Humans can only survive by helping each other." What do you think of this view?

a. "That's true in theory, but people are selfish." (3 points)

b. "If everyone thought of others, there would be no point in living." (1 point)

c. "It may be difficult to do this, but I will definitely try my best." (5 points)

8. At a wedding, when you see the happy expressions on the faces of the newlyweds, you will---

a. They praised together, "I think so too." (5 points)

b. He asked, "Which side should I stand on?" (3 points)

c. Say, "Is that person really like that?" Then point out the shortcomings. (1 point)

9. If someone asks you, "Are you a popular person or an unpopular person?" you would---

a. To answer unhappily. "I don't know if I'm popular or not." To ignore it. (1 point)

b. After a moment of deep thought, he asked, "Which type of person am I?" (3 points)

c. He smiled and said, "You're quite popular." (5 points)

analyze:

10-13 points: People who are unapproachable and annoying.

14-21 points: Immature, vain, and unpopular.

22-38 points: Ambitious, but an ordinary person.

39-46 points: Strong self-awareness and arrogance.

47-50 points: This person is very popular.

Popularity

If the following questions match your thoughts or actions, please mark "+"; otherwise, mark "-".

1. When you leave a place you spent time with your friends, do they feel reluctant to part with you?

2. When you are sick and resting at home, do you have friends around you to chat with, so you don't feel lonely?

3. Do you rarely argue with others over trivial matters?

4. Do you feel that many people have left a good impression on you, making you like them?

5. Do you also find things that your friends find interesting?

6. Would you be willing to do things your friends enjoy?

7. Do you often have friends invite you over for a chat?

8. Do your friends often ask you to organize or host group activities such as dances or picnics?

9. Do you enjoy attending or being invited to social gatherings? Do you feel happy when these gatherings come into view?

10. Do you often receive compliments on your appearance, talents, and character?

11. If you can't remember the number of friends you have, can you immediately recall their names?

12. Can you quickly adapt to dealing with people of all types of temperaments and personalities?

13. When you meet a stranger, do you think it's more likely that they like you or don't?

14. Can you find the person you need to find quite easily?

15. Would you like to spend weekends and holidays with others?

16. Are you able to quickly become familiar with and connect with the various people you encounter?

17. Do you think most of the people you meet are easy to approach?

18. Do others rarely criticize, condemn, or even speak harshly to you, and instead quickly forgive and understand your mistakes and errors?

19. Are you easily approachable by the opposite sex?

20. Are your friends easily influenced by you and receptive to your opinions and suggestions?

score:

A "+" sign earns 5 points, and a "-" sign earns 0 points. Then, calculate your total score.

analyze:

If your total score is above 70, you can proudly say, "I'm one of the most popular people!" If your total score is between 60 and 70, you can comfort yourself with, "I'm fairly popular." If your total score is between 50 and 60, you can be a little more optimistic: "I don't make a bad impression on others." If your total score is between 40 and 50, you can even breathe a sigh of relief: "I'm not disliked." If your total score is below 40, you must pay attention, because this indicates that you are not popular.

17. Six Questions to Understand People's Hearts

Please memorize the following six questions and their answers. Next time you attend a party, when things are lively and you're enjoying yourself, try asking your neighbor these six questions as conversation starters. This will not only draw attention to you, but you can also gain a better understanding of their current situation and personality from their answers. Now, try answering these six questions yourself first, then check your answers to gain a deeper understanding of yourself.

question:

1. What do you like to do most?

2. What do you like to watch the most?

3. What's your favorite food?

4. What age would you like to stay at?

5. If you could become a bird, what kind of bird would you want to be?

6. If you could transform into an animal, which one would you choose?

Analysis:

Group 1:

A. Judging from the other party's attitude in answering the question:

1. The answer is clear and affirmative – you have a clear mind and understand yourself.

2. The answer is vague and ambiguous-lacking indecisiveness and independent judgment.

B. Judging from the answer content:

1. Playing table tennis – demonstrates meticulousness and diligence in doing things.

2. Dancing or swimming – harmonious and tactful, but easily troubled and anxious by disharmony or being abandoned.

3. Painting, writing, or playing an instrument – ​​a thirst for art and a high level of creativity.

4. Sleeping, resting, or not knowing what to do – unhappiness, wanting to escape responsibility, awkward personality, and low self-esteem.

5. Watching plays or movies – indicates good taste, a kind heart, and a tendency to relieve mental stress; a good person.

Group 2:

A. Judging from the attitude towards answering the question:

1. The answer is clear, there are certain places and special things to look at - there is decisiveness.

2. General answers, such as "beautiful scenery" or "foreign landscapes"-they are kind and helpful, but unfortunately, their thinking is disorganized and they lack direction in their work.

B. Judging from the content of the answer:

1. The sea – independent and self-reliant, whose personality often coincides with the activities and customs of the places they go.

2. Sunset - Artistic talent, love of art, and a fulfilling spiritual life.

3. Beautiful women – a male preference, the kind of woman a gentleman seeks.

Group 3:

A. Judging from the cooking method:

1. Prefers tender or easy-to-cook foods – selfless and unpretentious.

2. Prefer elaborate dishes or foods that are difficult to cook – lazy, demanding, and uncomfortable if they don't put on airs.

B. Judging by the type of food:

1. Fruits – shy and affectionate.

2. Steak, pork chop, lean meat – realistic, honest, and full of common sense.

3. Sweet treats such as cakes and ice cream – indicates a childlike temperament and a love for social activities and parties.

4. Cold dishes – once you become close friends, you'll be the best of friends.

Group 4:

People usually choose the period of their life when things are going smoothly and they are happiest. Those who want to return to their childhood are emotionally immature and miss that irresponsible time. Those who want to stay at their current age are successful in their careers and happy in their lives. The elderly all wish they could be ten or twenty years younger, and women all wish they could stay around 25 years old.

Group 5:

A. Judging from the bird's situation:

1. Likes to be a caged bird – insecure, lazy, and needs to be taken care of.

2. Likes to be a high-flying bird – ambitious.

B. Judging by the type of bird:

1. Beautiful birds like peacocks – love to show off, are vain, and enjoy being around the opposite sex.

2. Sparrows, robins, hummingbirds-making a fuss over nothing, lacking focus, and being chatterboxes.

3. Bluebirds and parrots – love clothing and color, are gentle, and appreciate art.

4. Owl – intelligent, calm, methodical, and analytical.

5. Nightingale and lark – shy and affectionate.

Group 6:

A. Judging from animal habits:

1. A docile animal-a good husband or wife, honest, calm, hardworking, and without illusions.

2. The Beast – Cruel, ruthless, and possessive. Strong-willed, with strong masculine instincts, and capable of success even in difficult circumstances.

B. Judging by the animal species:

1. Horse – Loyal, friendly, and helpful. If someone likes horse racing, it indicates ambition, excitement, and an imaginative leadership potential. If they prefer circus horses, they are more timid and somewhat boastful.

2. Dogs – very family-oriented, needing affection and protection. If it's a special breed, this person's personality traits will definitely share similarities with those of the dog they like.

3. The fierce beast of the forest-Gangyi, is the head of the family, shrewd in his actions, and has the determination to "not give up until the Yellow River is reached," showing no mercy.

4. Cat – Possesses all feminine characteristics, is not very sincere, and enjoys being praised.

5. Ox – Kind, reliable, and gentle, but lacking in imagination.